The reader knows my opinion on unsolicited advice and sermons on how to behave in life.
Recall that ideas do not truly sink in when emotions come into play; we do not sure rational brain outside of classrooms.
Self-help books are largely ineffectual.
Good,enlightened and friendly advice and eloquent sermons do not register for more than a few moments when they go against our wiring.
The interesting thing about stoicism is that it plays on dignity and personal aesthetics,which are part of our genes.
Start stressing personal elegance at your next misfouture.
Exhibit'know how to live'in all circumstance.
Dress at your best on your execution day;
Try to leave a good impression on the death squad by standing erect and proud.
Try not to play victim when diagnosed with cancer, hide it from others and only share the information with the doctor-it will avert the platitudes and nobody will treat you like a victim worthy of their pity;in addition,the dignified attitude will make both defeat and victory feel equally heroic.
Be extremely courteous to your assistant when you lose money,instead of taking it out on him as many of the traders whom I scorn routinely do.
Try not to blame others for your fate,even if they deserve blame.
Never exhibit any self-pity,even if your sinnificant other bolts with the handsome ski instructor or the younger aspiring model.
Do not complain.
If you suffer from a benign version of the attitude problem,like one of my childhood friends ,do not start playing nice guy if your business dries up.
The only article lady fortunate has no control over is your behavior .
Good luck.
