About the feeling of love, marriage
The happiness feeling for anyone comes to oneself, not any other one. Even you're falling in love, your lover love you passionally and deeply, so you depend all you happiness onto him, some day you must feel dispointed, sooner or later. Because the feeling of love most come from imagination, when in love, what you see is all the merit of your lover, but when you married, you must face the truth and disavantage, the feeling of love will dissapear some years later. If you hope" because I love you, so you must love me", you will feel dispointed early or late. The pure rational men haven't the feeling of love(only have physiology passion), because their brain lack the element of love feeling.The emotional man is with full of love, but he love you and also will feel pain for refusing the love from others, because they're too kind hearted.
Love is a dream, marriage and life is prosaic(don't include the people with special talent and capability).The correct mode is: I love myself, my passional love make me happiness even if there is no one love me in the world, if I can get love from others, it's the gift presented by the God, so lucky and appreciated. The one who love himselft/herself will always have a good mood, them she/he will bring good mood to his/her lover, it's good to promote their relationship to a better direction. If you always devote yourself to your lover, you must hope to get return, if no or less, them you will feel unhappy and complain him/her, the bad mood will exchange a bad mood, it's easy to bring the relationship to a worse direction. If your marriage is because of love, some day you find the love feeling dissapeared on both side, you still need appreciated: we'd live in the dream of each other, now we wake up, see all truth and disadvantages, we don't feel bored and is keeping on being good to each other, we tried to establish a long and deep family love, it's so lucky.
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